Questions
Ask us anything.
Someone already has.
If your question isn't here, email us — we answer every one, and we're not easily embarrassed.
The obvious ones
What kind of
night is this?
Answered plainly, because you're going to ask anyway.
Is this a sex club?
No. No nudity, no partner swapping, no contact with anyone but the person you came with. It's a guided evening for couples in a beautifully built room, and everybody keeps their clothes on all night.
Is it a swingers event?
No. Every activity is with your own partner only. Couples come to be closer to each other, not to meet other couples.
Do we have to participate in everything?
No. Every part of the night is optional, every time. Sit one out with a drink and rejoin for the next thing — it happens at every event and nobody comments on it.
Will we have to perform in front of anyone?
Never. Nobody is called up, singled out, or watched. The whole room does each activity at the same time, in low light, facing their own partner.
Is this LGBTQ+ friendly?
[Your LGBTQ+ positioning, stated plainly]
Nerves
Comfort
and boundaries
The stuff people email us at eleven at night before they buy.
My partner is shy. Will they hate this?
Usually the opposite. The room is dark, the group moves together, and the first half hour asks nothing of you. Most reluctant partners are the ones who ask when the next one is.
Do we need dance experience?
None. The routine is a handful of simple moves taught from scratch, and being bad at it is part of the fun. Nobody in the room can dance either.
Do we need to be in shape or flexible?
No. Everything is designed to be done seated or standing at your own pace, in whatever body you have. If you have an injury or a limitation, tell us at check-in and the instructor will give you an alternative.
Does anyone touch us?
[Whether instructors touch guests] You only ever touch your own partner.
Are photos or video taken?
[Your photography policy] [Your phone policy]
Who else is in the room?
14 couples, mostly aged [crowd age range], most of them first-timers who booked feeling exactly as unsure as you do.
Logistics
Before you come
Everything practical, in one place.
What should we wear?
[Dress code, in full]
How long is the event?
About four hours: doors at [0:00], program [0:00] to [00:00], room open until [END TIME]. You're welcome to leave whenever you like.
Do we need to bring anything?
Just ID and something you can move in. [Drinks policy]
Is alcohol available?
[Cash bar / BYOB / included] Either way, this is a night about paying attention to each other, so we keep it civilised.
Is there food?
[Food]
Where do we park?
[Parking details, including where the entrance is]
Is the venue accessible?
[Be specific about what is and isn't accessible]
What's the age requirement?
21+
Tickets
Buying, gifting,
changing your mind
One ticket admits one couple.
Can we come if we're newly dating?
[Whether newly-dating couples are welcome]
Can I buy this as a gift?
Yes, and people do — anniversaries, birthdays, Christmas, and the occasional very good apology. Gift cards are emailed instantly and can be used on any event.
Can we get a refund or move to another date?
[Your refund and transfer policy]
Can we come with another couple?
Absolutely — buy separate tickets and tell us when you arrive so we can seat you together. Groups of [group size] couples should look at private events instead.
Can we book the whole room?
Yes. Private Couples Nights, bachelorettes, birthdays and team events all start at an email.
Contact
Still not sure?
Just ask.
Email is quickest, and it comes straight to us — not a service desk. If you're nervous about something, that's a completely normal reason to write.
- [your@email.com]
- Phone
- [PHONE]
- [@handle]
- Private events
- [private@email.com]